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I work with many different kinds of people. There are the ones who come in, fully committed to taking action to regain their health, confidence and vitality. Then, there are those who show up and begin the process, but then stall out. They know WHAT to do, but they just don’t do it, for whatever reason. Then, there are the ones who fail to show up at all, usually because of some type of fear – fear of failure or, worse – fear of success.

There is no judgement here – just an observance. Everyone is on a different journey in this lifetime. We’re all here to fulfill our own purpose, learn lessons, meet certain people, etc. So if stalling out or failing to show up is part of the lesson that needs to be learned, then I honor that.

Trying to plead with, persuade, chase or change someone when they aren’t ready or don’t want it can interfere with the lessons they are on this Earth to learn.

That’s why being an enabler is like trespassing on someone else’s property. We don’t have a right to be there; just like we don’t have a right to interfere with another person’s life path.

Sometimes people do need to hit bottom, get sick or lose everything before they “wake up.” Interfering before that happens only prolongs their lesson (and their misery.)

If you are someone who has been trying to change a loved one or friend and you’re exhausted from pleading with them to change, then perhaps now is a good time to step back a bit. If you need help with this, let’s schedule an appointment.

Until next time,

Connie Kvilhaug, Cert. Hypnotist